Pegging, the act of inserting a strap-on dildo into another person’s anus, is a sexual practice that is gaining increasing attention and popularity. While it is still considered a fringe sex act, more and more people are beginning to explore this exciting, gender-stereotype-busting sexual behavior. If you’re curious about pegging and want to know how to get started, this guide will cover everything from introducing the concept to your partner to how to try it.
What is Pegging?
Pegging is the act of one partner (usually the one without a penis) using a strap-on dildo to penetrate the other partner’s anus. This behavior allows the strap-on wearer to experience what it’s like to have a penis, and gives the recipient the opportunity to explore anal penetration. Anal sex can be an exciting way to explore power dynamics, anal pleasure, and new orgasms.
Origins of anal sex
The term “pegging” was popularized by sex columnist Dan Savage in a poll to find a word for the act of anal penetration with a strap-on. While the act existed before there was a name for it, Savage’s poll brought it into the subcultural trend.
Overcoming the stigma associated with bondage
Despite its growing popularity, bondage play is still surrounded by stigma, especially among cisgender males who feel that bondage challenges their masculinity. However, the purpose of bondage is physical pleasure and exploration, not sexual orientation or gender identity. It is important to approach bondage with an open mind, focusing on enthusiastic consent and mutual enjoyment.
Who can try bondage?
Anyone can try anal sex, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Everyone’s body has an ass, so anal sex is a form of sexual exploration that works for everyone. The key is mutual interest and consent between the partners.
Does anal sex make you gay?
No. Liking anal sex does not define a person’s sexual orientation. Sexual behavior does not define sexual preference in terms of gender. Anal sex is about power and pleasure, not a particular label.
What does anal sex feel like?
For those new to anal play, anal sex can feel overwhelming, yet pleasurable. Many describe it as a feeling of fullness or intense pressure. For those with prostate glands, anal sex can also strongly stimulate the prostate gland, leading to orgasms as intense as ever.
Best Pegging Positions for Beginners
1. Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is a comfortable and intimate bondage position. The receiver lies on his or her side with the giver lying behind him or her. If desired, a pillow can be used to elevate the receiver’s hip position. This position allows the receiver to control the speed and depth of penetration.
2. Lie-flat position
Lie-flat position is when the receiver lies flat on the bed and the giver penetrates from behind. This position allows for deeper penetration than the normal doggy style and is easier for beginners to master. It also exercises the giver’s upper arms.
3. Cowboy/Cowman Pose
In this position, the receiver straddles the giver and lowers himself onto the dildo. This allows the receiver to control the depth and speed of penetration and is great for beginners. It is also an excellent way for the giver to experience the pleasure of having their partner on top.
Intermediate Pegging Positions
4. You on top
In this position, your partner lies on his or her back with the dildo facing up. You can straddle your partner, either kneeling or squatting, to control the depth and speed of penetration. This cowboy style position maintains eye contact while giving your partner access to your penis.
5. Standing position
The standing position can increase spontaneity and stimulation. You can just bend over a piece of furniture or a countertop to stay stable, allowing your partner to enter you from behind. This position is perfect for fast, passionate sex.
6. Side-by-side
Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. This “spooning” position allows for deep penetration and a sense of intimacy for your partner. This position is also less strenuous, making it suitable for prolonged sexual activity.
Advanced Pegging Positions
7. Reverse Cowgirl Pose
Similar to the cowgirl position, but you are facing away from your partner. This position offers your partner a different angle of penetration and a unique perspective. It allows you the autonomy to control the rhythm and intensity of the experience.
8. missionary position, legs over shoulders
Lie on your back with your legs on your partner’s shoulders. This position allows the penis to penetrate deeply and maintain eye contact. Your partner can also stimulate your penis with their hands or a vibrator to add intense pleasure.
9. Lotus Pose
Both partners sit facing each other with your legs around your partner’s waist. This intimate position allows both partners to connect deeply and synchronize their movements. This position is perfect for slow and passionate sexual activity.
Tips for a Better Pegging Experience
Communication
Always have open communication with your partner about your desires, bottom line, and comfort level. Discussing your preferences beforehand will make the experience more enjoyable for both partners.
Lubrication
Use plenty of water-based lubricant to ensure smooth and comfortable penetration. Anal tissue is very delicate and lubrication can help prevent discomfort or injury.
Relaxation
Take your time to relax and get into the right state. Deep breathing and foreplay can help relieve tension and make the sexual experience more pleasurable.
Gradual penetration
It is recommended to start with a smaller dildo and gradually increase the size as you get used to it. This gradual progression will help your body adapt and make the experience more comfortable.
Aftercare
After the session, conduct aftercare by cuddling, discussing the experience and addressing any concerns. This will strengthen the trust and strong bond between partners.
Recommended bondage kit
Bondage kit with 7-inch G-point dildo
This strap-on kit is perfect for beginners and experienced enthusiasts alike.The 7-inch G-spot dildo has just the right length and girth for a pleasurable penetrative sexual experience.
7-Inch Dildo
This is a versatile dildo that works with most harnesses. It is the perfect size for those who want to explore bondage without feeling overwhelmed.
Harnessed Quad with Vibrating Pouch
Both comfortable and convenient, this harnessed boxer has a vibrating pouch for added intense stimulation.
Conclusion
With the right mindset and adequate preparation, voyeurism can be an incredibly pleasurable and intimate experience. Exploring different positions allows you and your partner to find what works best for you, enhancing the connection and sexual fulfillment between partners. Whether you’re a beginner or an enthusiast, there’s always a position that can enhance your experience. Remember to communicate openly and use plenty of lubricant and take your time to enjoy the ride. With the right methods and toys, bondage can lead you to orgasms like never before.
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