Making your own BDSM toys can be a particularly fun experience, allowing you to customize the toys to your own personal preferences and needs. With just a bit of creativity and some common household items, you can make your own BDSM toys without spending a lot of money. However, it is important to approach this DIY project with caution and be thorough in understanding BDSM safety. In this guide, we will explore various DIY BDSM toy ideas that take safety and practicality into account.
Why DIY BDSM toys?
The main motivations for making your own BDSM toys are to save money and to create toys that are more personalized to your personal needs. However, it is important to recognize the potential risks of DIY toys, especially in bondage and impact play.
What are homemade BDSM toys?
Homemade BDSM toys are household item substitutes used in BDSM play. Common examples include toys such as rope, homemade whips, candles, and chicken dusters and rulers. While these items may seem appropriate, you still need to be aware of the potential dangers and how to avoid dangerous situations.
Are homemade BDSM toys safe?
In general, making your own BDSM toys is not recommended due to some inherent risks. Some bondage toys, in particular, can cause bodily harm if not designed correctly. Always use materials that are safe for the body and non-toxic, and avoid anything that can break or shatter easily. Thorough cleaning of the equipment before and after use is essential to prevent the spread of bacteria and infection.
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DIY BDSM Beds
Professionally made BDSM beds are a great experience but relatively expensive. If you already have a wooden frame bed, you can easily DIY it into a bunk bed by adding four hook and loop with mounting plates. You can screw them into the 4 corners of the bed frame and you have the perfect place to attach a bondage rope or other restraint. If you want to create a dungeon-like effect, you can purchase accessories like chains and some sex bed straps from your local hardware store.
DIY bondage bench/torture device
The kind of storage box with handles on the side can double as a spanking bench and a place to store toys. The handles can be used to secure wrist straps, which will ensure your partner stays in place during play.
DIY BDSM Crate
The Large Dog Crate is a very affordable alternative to specially made BDSM cages. It’s great for reminding smaller dogs, and can also be turned into a caged sex table by attaching wood to the top. Keep in mind you first need to practice safe play and never rush it.
DIY BDSM Queen’s Stool
The Queen’s Stool or King’s Stool is one of the ideal options for oral sex. You can create your own stool by modifying a regular footstool. It is possible to remove the round part of the seat and install a padded toilet seat, which will be securely fastened to the frame. This DIY sex chair will also provide you with the support you need for extended play.
DIY BDSM chair
Any wooden chair can be turned into an exceptional sex chair by adding metal anchor rings or eyelets to the front legs. These can be achieved by easily attaching restraints using climbing buckles. For more advanced projects, consider creating a chair with a vibrating effect by cutting a hole in the seat to hold a wand vibrator.
Home Gym to DIY Sex Dungeon
Fitness equipment is strikingly similar in appearance to BDSM gear. Wall racks, power racks, fitness benches and pull-up bars can all be used for bondage play. These items are designed to hold body weight and have multiple points for attaching bondage devices at the same time. Remember, please play BDSM games at home and not in a public gym!
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DIY BDSM Collar
DIY BDSM collars are easily purchased from pet stores. Dog collars come in a very wide variety of styles and can be used with a matching leash. Custom ID tags can also be made to add personality and special meaning.
DIY BDSM Restraints and Cuffs
Common household items such as scarves, ties, belts and double-sided Velcro can be used as restraints. Pillowcases can be used to restrain a partner’s arms. Binding ropes are softer on the skin and relatively inexpensive compared to more traditional methods. Options include natural fibers like cotton, hemp, and jute, as well as some synthetics like nylon or MFP (multifiber propylene).
DIY BDSM Spreader Bar
A spreader bar allows your partner to keep their legs open during sex. If you’re making one, you’ll need a dowel, two closed hooks, a drill bit, wrapping material, two hiking buckles, and some sandpaper. Sand the end of the dowel, drill holes for the eyelets and tighten them, then tighten the wrapping rod to get the finished product.
DIY BDSM Hood
A ski mask can be used as a BDSM hood, and this hood deprives the senses. It can be used in conjunction with a blindfold or eye mask for a more intense experience.
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DIY BDSM Paddles
If your home is full of potential pat paddles. You might consider a spatula, ping pong paddle, the back of a hairbrush, a small chopping/serving board with a handle, or a carpet slapper.
DIY BDSM Sensory Toys
You can use a variety of household items for sensory play. Common items including massage rollers, jade/quartz facial rollers, feathers, forks, large plastic combs, silicone baking brushes, rolling pins and clean makeup brushes can be used to create different sensations.
DIY BDSM Whip
Whips are a must for BDSM play and you can make them at home. Paracord whips require basic knotting and weaving skills to make, while leather whips can be made using a combination of dowels, leather or faux leather and fabric glue.
DIY Ice Dildo
Ice dildos are a special way to explore temperature play. A frozen penis can be placed on a partner’s nipples, labia and clitoris for chillingly intense stimulation. This is perfect for external play, but not for insertion into the anus.
How to use homemade BDSM toys?
Communication
Maintain open communication with your partner to establish clear boundaries and safe language.
Safety
Understand the risks involved and have a plan in place in case something goes wrong.
Rope bondage
Start with the simplest bondage and gradually practice safe knots.
Spanking
Use a wooden spoon, spatula and ruler for impact play, start slowly and get comfortable, keeping communication with your partner during.
Conclusion
Exploring your quirks doesn’t have to cost a lot of money either. With some creativity and some common household items, you can make your own variety of BDSM toys that fulfill your personal desires.
Making your own BDSM toys can be a very rewarding experience, but safety and comfort should always be your top priority. By following the instructions and tips we’ve provided in detail you’ll be able to enjoy the benefits of DIY BDSM toys while avoiding dangerous situations. Keep in mind, however, that professional gear is usually the safest option, but you can also enhance your BDSM experience with homemade toys as long as they are carefully crafted and well thought out during play.