There are times when despite your best efforts, the one you trust just doesn’t deliver the results you expect. When you find yourself in a situation where you may need some extra stimulation, but don’t want to splurge on luxury sex toys, you may be surprised at the potential of DIY erotic toys for those everyday household items. With a little creativity and careful use of considerations for safety, you can turn ordinary household items into fun DIY erotic toys that can take your one- or two-person play to the next level. From kinky gear to kitchen gadgets, here’s how to transform ordinary items into extraordinary pleasure toys.
Are DIY sex toys safe?
Before we get creative, you need to consider safety first. While the idea of turning common household items into sex toys sounds exciting, not all items are suitable for intimate use. Safety should always be your first consideration when attempting to make homemade sex toys.
Choose clean, unused items
Many household items are not designed for intimate use, so it’s important to choose items that have never been used. Whether it’s a cucumber, a spatula, or an electric toothbrush head, always make sure it’s clean and designed specifically for your sexual pleasure. Cross-contamination of food or other substances can lead to infection or irritation in your body.
Use condoms
One of the easiest ways to make homemade sex toys safer is to use a condom. This creates a barrier between your body and the object, reducing the potential risk of bacteria, infection, and PH imbalance. Even if you do use condoms, it’s essential to clean your DIY sex toys thoroughly before and after use.
Communicating with your partner
If you plan to use homemade sex toys during sex with your partner, communication is crucial. Discuss your ideas with your partner to make sure you both feel comfortable and excited about trying something new. Enthusiastic consent is essential for a positive sexual experience.
How to make sex toys from household items
Now that we’ve covered safe sex, let’s explore how to turn everyday household items into satisfying sex toys. Whether you’re looking to spice up solo sex or add some excitement to bedroom activities with your partner, here are some creative ideas.
Homemade dildos
Dildos are a classic sex toy and there are usually plenty of penis-shaped items around the house that can be used as alternatives. Here are some inspirations for making your own DIY dildo:
1. Fruits and vegetables
A lot of produce is full of potential when it comes to making homemade dildos. Bananas have a natural curve that is perfect for hitting the G-spot. Carrots can provide a tapered experience, while the unique texture of corn can provide surprising stimulation. Zucchini comes in a variety of lengths and girths to accommodate different preferences and needs.
For those with penises, soft fruits can also be used as makeshift airplane cups or male masturbators. Whichever fruit or vegetable you choose, be sure to wash it thoroughly before and after use and always use a condom over it before using it to avoid the potential risk of infection and irritation.
2. Hairbrush
The handle of a hairbrush also makes an excellent temporary dildo, not least because many come with a very convenient flared base that is very easy to maneuver. And with a variety of shapes and sizes to choose from, you can experiment with different textures and thicknesses without spending a fortune.
3. Small household items
If you prefer something more discreet or compact, then everyday items such as the ends of markers, mascara tubes or eyeliners can be effective when it comes to sexual stimulation. These items are very easy to clean and can be used with condoms for a quick and safe experience.
Homemade Vibrators
When your vibrator breaks or you want to explore new sensations without buying an expensive toy, here are some household items that can double as vibrating sex toys:
1. Electric toothbrush
An electric toothbrush is a great DIY vibrator option, especially for clitoral stimulation during masturbation or intercourse. Simply cover the toothbrush head completely with a condom, turn it on, and let the vibrations work their magic on your clitoris, vulva, or any other erogenous zone. Remember to use the plastic side of the toothbrush head as the bristles may be too rough for sensitive areas.
2. Detachable shower head
The removable shower head can also be used as an alternative to a clitoral suction cup or vibrator if you prefer to play with water. The adjustable water pressure settings allow you to customize the stimulation, perfect for clitoral, anal or penile play. You just need to make sure that only the water is in contact with your body, not the shower head itself.
3. Back massager
The inserted back massager can be used not only to relieve sore muscles, but also as a powerful homemade vibrator to use. Its size and strength are perfect for exploring whole body vibration, either alone or with a partner. While its size may make it less convenient to use during intercourse, it can be an excellent external stimulation tool option.
Homemade Pocket Pussy
Pocket vaginas, or male masturbators, can be easily made DIY with everyday items such as sponges, latex gloves and even toilet paper rolls.
Instructions
Line the inside of an empty Pringles potato chip canister with a tight-fitting soft sponge, then place a latex glove into the canister.
Secure the gloves firmly with a rubber band, making sure they are tight enough to form a snug fit.
Apply an appropriate amount of lubricant before use.
Safety tips
Make sure all materials are clean and free of body-harming chemicals. Discard DIY toys immediately if they show signs of wear or damage after use.
Homemade Butt Plugs
Due to the delicate nature of anal sex, making anal plugs requires special care. It is recommended to use materials such as silicone or glass, which are both smooth and non-porous.
Instructions
Choose a material such as silicone or glass. For silicone, you will need to use a mold to create the shape with a flared base.
Make sure the anal plugs are the right size, even more so if you are a beginner, and remember to start with a smaller size.
Use the right amount of water-based lubricant to avoid irritation.
Safety tips
Always make sure the anal plug has a flared base to prevent it from getting lost inside the anus. Use body-safe materials such as silicone and glass, and thoroughly clean and sanitize them before and after each use.
Homemade Penis Ring
Penis rings can significantly enhance erections and prolong pleasure, and it’s easy to make them at home.
Instructions
Use a hair band or plumber’s ring as a base. Hair bands are elastic and comfortable items, while plumber’s rings come in a variety of materials such as rubber or plastic.
Make sure the ring is snug but not too tight. Ensure that you can easily remove it without feeling physically uncomfortable.
Safety tips
Avoid materials that may impede blood circulation. If you feel any physical numbness or pain, remove the penis ring immediately.
Homemade and store-bought sex toys
The choice between homemade and store-bought sex toys depends on factors such as personal preference, safety, and price. Each option has its own pros and cons.
Homemade sex toys
Pros
Great value for money
Can be customized to meet your specific needs
Ready for immediate use with household items
Cons
May lack durability and safety
Limited to materials available at home
Requires extra care to ensure hygiene
Store-bought sex toys
Pros
Made from durable materials that are not harmful to the body
Professionally tested for safety and effectiveness
Wide variety of designs and functions to meet diverse needs
Cons
Expensive
May not always be ready for immediate use
Limited to commercially available designs
Overall, while homemade sex toys are creative and accessible, they may still fall far short of the safety and reliability of store-bought toys. If you find DIY toys to be a fun experiment, it’s well worth investing in specialty toys for long-term use.
Additional Tips for Homemade Sex Toys
Now that you’ve mastered the various ways to make homemade sex toys, here are some additional tips to make sure your experience is safer and more enjoyable:
1. Clean Thoroughly
Be sure to clean your sex toy thoroughly before and after each use. Use warm water and mild soap, or a special toy cleaner. Even if you use a condom, thorough cleaning is key to avoiding infection and staying healthy.
2. Use plenty of lubricant
Lubrication is important for a comfortable and pleasurable experience, especially when using homemade sex toys. Water-based lubricants are safe to use on condoms and most household products. If you are using an oil-based product, keep in mind that it may degrade latex condoms and is not suitable for all toys. Water-based lubricants are therefore more recommended.
3. Listen to your body
Pay attention to your body’s specific reactions to different sensations and materials. If anything feels wrong, stop immediately. Discomfort, irritation or pain are all indicators that something is not working. Prioritize your health at all times.
4. Experiment and have fun
Homemade sex toys are uniquely fun and they allow you to experiment with a wide variety of things without spending too much money. Don’t be afraid to try new things and find the toy that works best for you. Sexual pleasure is a very personal experience, and DIY toys offer a unique experience that allows you to explore your desires to fulfill your individual needs in a creative and intimate way.
Conclusion
Homemade sex toys can be a fun, safe and satisfying alternative to store-bought products, offering endless possibilities for exploring and enjoying your sex life. Through the creative use of household items, you can DIY a wide variety of personalized toys that meet your specific needs and preferences. Whether you’re interested in toys like dildos, vibrators, or fake vaginas, the key is to prioritize safety, cleanliness, and communication with your partner. With these guidelines in mind, you’re ready to embark on a DIY sexual adventure that’s both exciting and satisfying.
In the meantime, if you’re looking to use a sex toy for the long haul, you can also purchase specialized toys that are more versatile and safer, so enjoy your exploration!
