How To Use A Strapless Dildo? A Comprehensive Guide

In this article, we’re going to take an in-depth look at the Strapless Dildo, a sex toy that works for all genders and both offer unique sexual experiences. After trying this sex toy, I can base my personal exploration of sexual pleasure as well as find which Strapless Dildo toy is best for you.

Strap-Ons

A strap-on sex toy is a sex toy that allows you to attach a dildo to a harness worn by the user, usually around the hips. The harness is usually made of a high grade material such as leather or nylon and can be adjusted to fit different body shapes. The dildo itself can be made from a variety of materials, including silicone, glass and metal.

What is A Strapless Dildo?

The Strapless Dildo is a unique sex toy designed for sex between couples, and is especially suited to users who prefer a more intimate, close-knit experience without the use of straps or harnesses. One end of this dildo has a ball or anchor that can be inserted into the wearer’s vagina, allowing them to use their pelvic muscles to hold the dildo in place. The other end of the dildo protrudes outward, ready to be inserted into the partner. This design allows both partners to enjoy a stimulating experience at the same time, often stimulating the G-spot and clitoris of the wearer, as well as the sensitive areas of the recipient.

Benefits of Strapless Dildo

Stability

The harness provides excellent stability and control, allowing the wearer to effectively control the angle and depth of penetration.

Versatility

Strapless Dildos offer versatility in that you can change the dildo to different sizes or shapes to suit your needs and preferences.

Comfort

A well-fitting harness will feel quite comfortable and provide firm support during use.

Disadvantages of the Strapless Dildo

Limited sensation

The wearer will not experience the same sensations as with a strapless double-ended dildo, and the experience is relatively limited.

Fitting time

Adjusting the harness and getting it ready can take some time, which may affect the mood.

Cost

High-quality harnesses can be expensive, and may be costly if multiple dildos are purchased for replacement.

How To Use A Strapless Dildo?

Using a strapless strap-on dildo can be a stimulating experience for both partners. Below is a specific step-by-step guide on how to use it:

Insert the bulb

The wearer inserts the bulbous end of the dildo into the vagina. Be sure to relax and use the right amount of lubricant so that insertion feels comfortable.

Stimulating the pelvic muscles

The wearer should use the pelvic floor muscles to hold the dildo in place. Over time, Kegel exercises help to strengthen these pelvic muscles, making it easier to maintain control during use.

Adjusting comfort

Adjust the dildo for comfort and firmness. It may be necessary to adjust the angle gradually to ensure that both partners can fully enjoy the sexual experience.

Trying out various positions

Gradually try positions that are easy for the wearer to control, such as lying on the back or sitting up. As both partners become more comfortable, try other different positions to find one that feels good for both partners.

Communication is key

Open communication between partners is important. Discussing sensations, adjusting positions and providing honest feedback can enhance the experience and ensure that both partners are comfortable and satisfied.

How to choose a strapless dildo?

Materials

Since the dildo will be used for insertion into the body, safety should be a top priority. Silicone is an ideal material for sex toys as it is body safe, odorless and non-porous, making it a reliable and safe choice.

Size

Size is a key factor in ensuring comfortable sex. When purchasing a strapless strap-on erotic toy, consider the length and girth. Larger sizes provide a sense of fullness and pressure, but may be difficult to maneuver, while smaller sizes do the opposite.

Design

The design of strapless backpack erotica varies widely. Some mimic the appearance of a real penis with raised lines and folds, while others use smooth lines and bright colors to create a special aesthetic.

Vibration

Strapless dildos can be categorized as non-vibrating or vibrating. Non-vibrating dildos allow you to focus on penetration, while vibrating dildos provide intense vibrations to enhance pleasure. Please choose according to your needs.

Waterproof

If you like to explore sex in the bathroom or other wet environments, then waterproof performance is something to consider.

Best Strapless Dildos Of 2024

Erocome Cancri Silicone Vibrating Strapless Dildo

The game of dildo has escalated tremendously. And to successfully outdo that, we have introduced Erocome Cancri. It integrates a dual-end triple motor that has a wide range of functions. The sucking, vibration, and licking both are taken care of by this dildo.  The remote control feature is a plus that allows you to enter into the arena of teasing. This dildo is remarkably flexible and the curved design goes smoothly inside you.  The triple vibrator provides you with powerful stimulation. Use this dildo solo or in partner play, Erocome Cancri is never going to disappoint you.

Features

Triple Motor Integration 

This dildo has triple motor integration which means it will give you orgasms using its mind-blowing sucking, vibrating, and licking motion. Enjoy!

Silicone Made

This dildo will leave a wonderful silk-like sensation on your skin – thanks to the silicone, TPE, and ABS incorporation which also guarantees the fact that this dildo is free from any toxic materials and will not harm your delicate skin.

Ergonomic In Design

The realistic flexible design of the dildo allows it to go smoothly inside you and grant ultimate orgasms and is portable easily.

Powerful Motors 

The powerful motors that are incorporated into the product are indeed durable and will last long while providing multiple stimulation support.

Various Modes

Each motor has ten modes that equate to the fact that you are going to get 100 varied ranges of sensations that you can enjoy.

Remote Controlled 

Now enjoy the teasing game with this dildo by getting the connectivity range of up to 10 m.

USB Recharging

Now recharge fast and swiftly without wasting money on disposable batteries. The integrated Polymer lithium battery is all you are ever going to need. Not to mention, you get the playtime of up to 1 hour just by charging once for 2 hours.

Waterproof 

Now enjoy the wet realm of experiments. Now use it in the bathtub or swimming pool – Enjoy the product however you wish.

Lovense Lapis

This flexible dual head vibrating strap-on erotic promises to enhance your intimate moments.

Experience sexual pleasure like never before with Lovense Lapis, a flexible dual-head vibrating strapless backpack erotic toy. This innovative toy ensures that your intimacy and pleasure will reach new heights.

Comments

“This product is exactly what we’ve been looking for and I’m so glad Lovense has finally designed the ideal couples toy!”

Product description

The Lovense Lapis is a versatile, adjustable, high-quality, body-safe silicone strapless strap-on erotic toy designed for internal and external stimulation. It boasts an impressive design, convenient Lovense Remote App control and exceptional build quality. The dual motors ensure that both the wearer and receiver experience intense vibration effects, making it one of the best strapless backpack erotic toys on the market.

Benefits

Lovense Remote app provides convenience.

Excellent design improves the user experience.

Excellent build quality.

Comes with the most powerful motors.

Allows independent adjustment of multiple motors.

Suitable for both internal and external stimulation.

Cons

Penis design compromises inclusivity.

More expensive.

Desire Luxury

Desire Luxury Strapless Bondage Erotica

The Desire Luxury Strapless Bondage Erotica is an ideal choice for those seeking an exciting bondage experience. Made from premium silicone, this double-ended toy has a flexible design that ensures partners can enjoy it together.

Get ready to experience mind-blowing sensations with the Desire Luxury Strapless Dildo Vibrator. Made from premium silicone, this rechargeable toy features a swingable pony for the perfect angle and bunny ears for the ultimate in clitoral enjoyment.

Comments

“Fantastic! My partner and I used this toy as soon as we received it and both had a blast. This is by far our favorite toy and can’t wait to use it again and again!” ,

Product Description

The Desire Luxury Strapless Erotica ensures that you will enjoy a great sex experience with its flexible design and swingable pony. Adjust the pony for the ideal fit and angle, and explore various combinations of vibration speeds and patterns for mutual arousal. For optimal enjoyment, use an appropriate amount of water-based lubricant before.

Strap-On-Me

Perfect for beginners: Strap-On Vibrating Strapless Remote Control

Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Lingerie combines remote control functionality with powerful vibrations to ensure that partners enjoy a shared pleasurable experience.

Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Erotica

This remote control strapless backless erotic product offers a new experience in strapless eroticism.

Comments

“My wife loves this product. It is easy to wear and delivers a near-natural experience. Highly recommended!”

Product Description

Strap-On-Me has three different motors, each of which can be independently managed via a wireless remote control, providing a unique partner-sharing pleasure experience. Designed for voyeurism, this strap-on has a flexible, adjustable neck for a snug, comfortable fit and more pleasure for both partners. With an insertable length of 6.5 inches and a maximum circumference of 4.5 inches, this toy is an exciting innovation in penetrative play.

Lovehoney Deep Dive Strap-On

The Lovehoney Deep Dive Strap-On Strapless Erotica is perfect for those who want to experience penetrative play. It is made of soft silicone, and the elastic and rippled shaft will provide you with a thrilling sexual experience.

Lovehoney Strapless Deep Diver

Take your sexual experience to the next level with the Lovehoney Strapless Deep Diver.

Comments

“My girlfriend and I both really like this toy. It stays in place and makes our intimate time even better. Highly recommended!”

Product Description

Made of luxuriously soft silicone, this strap-on erotic toy comes with an adjustable pony for multiple stimulation at once. The removable bullet vibrator has a whopping three speeds and seven modes, making it dual-purpose and versatile. For optimal enjoyment, apply an appropriate amount of water-based lubricant to the toy before use.

Conclusion

The Strapless Dildo offers couples a unique and intimate and innovative way to connect and enjoy each other. Whether you’re looking for realistic design, extra vibrations, or the freedom of no-strap-on play, there’s a Strapless Dildo to meet your needs and preferences. By considering factors such as material, size, and additional features, you can find a toy that will enhance your sexual experience. Embrace the pleasure and intimacy of the Strapless Dildo and enjoy a journey of discovery with your partner.