Best Pegging Dildos: Ultimate Guide for All Levels

Introduction

Pegging, a sexual act in which a woman uses a strap on dildo to penetrate her male partner’s anus, is popular for its unique and exciting sexual experience. Whether you’re a beginner or an enthusiast, choosing the right penis clamp can greatly enhance your experience. This guide takes an in-depth look at the best clip-on dildos, harnesses, and kits to ensure you find the perfect toy for you.

My First Anal Sex Adventure

When I was 18, I did a lot of exploring with one of my partners. Eager and excited, I allowed him to penetrate me with barely any warm-up. The immediate bout of pain that came made him pull out quickly, teaching me a valuable lesson about the importance of preparation.

Today, I am well versed in the need to warm up and use plenty of lube. I often share these lessons with those who are new to anal sex. Let’s dive into the advice I give my friends, as well as my recommendations for the most popular penis dildos and related products available today.

Start small and take your time

The key to a pleasurable anal sex experience is to start slow and small. Warm up extensively before attempting anal penetration. External anal massage feels good and can be a long term part of the sexual experience. When you’re ready for penetration, warm up with your fingers or a small toy designed for anal sex.

Things to consider when choosing a Pegging Dildo

Size

The harness takes up about an inch of space at the base of the toy, so you’ll want to look for a dildo that’s at least 5 to 6 inches long so that it’s long enough for you to use. For beginners, a diameter of between 1 and 1.25 inches is best, while intermediate users may prefer a size around 1.5 inches in diameter. Widths over 1.75 inches are best for experienced enthusiasts.

Materials

Dildos that are compatible with harnesses can be made of different materials, but silicone is highly recommended. Silicone is squishable and bendable, durable, and easier to clean than other materials. Keep in mind that silicone lubricants can damage silicone toys, so water-based lubricants are ideal for these hook-on dildos.

Flared base

The base of the dildo needs to be wider than its shaft so that it can be securely strapped to the harness. A flared base also ensures that the toy is anally secure when used freely, preventing it from getting lost inside you and causing unnecessary bodily injury.

Curves

Direct prostate stimulation is one of the main benefits of anal sex. The best dildo shape for prostate stimulation is an upward curve. The prostate is located 2 to 3 inches inside and can be stimulated by pressing on the anterior rectal wall.

Texture

For anal sex, a dildo with a smooth, relatively frictionless surface is ideal to avoid stimulation of the buttocks. Dildos with ripples or ridges can also be stimulating if there is an adequate amount of lubricant and if they are warmed up ahead of time, but they can be overwhelming for beginners.

Best Pegging Dildo Of 2024

Lockink Queen Sheba Strap On Set

Strap-ons are some of the most flexible toys around, they can be used in different ways because they allow the user to subject them to different applications. When you now have a strap-on that is durable, balanced and aesthetically pleasing and a strap-on harness that is well-designed and balanced, your inspiration to use it becomes more open.

Queen Sheba strap-on set is a combination of a premium leather material and a dildo. The design is quite aesthetic and equally ergonomic. It is made to fit people of different sizes and shapes.
The straps on the harness can measure between 23.5 and 31.5 inches in the circumference of the waist when it is at the widest point. The accompanying dildo also has a diameter of 1.65 inches. The materials that were used to make this harness are bull hide leather, metals for the buckles and silicon for the dildo and also the opening at the front of the harness.

Best for Beginners Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Harness Kit

Product Overview

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Kit is ideal for those new to anal play. The kit includes

Adjustable velvet harness

Two silicone dildos Slim 4.5-inch dildo and thick 5.25-inch dildo

Pocket for bullet vibrator

The straps fit hips up to 60 inches and are comfortable and machine washable.

Pros

Comfortable velvet straps

Includes two dildos

Body-safe silicone

Cons

Expensive

Dildos may be too small for experienced enthusiasts

Recommended Reasons

Perfect for beginners, the Tantus Bend Over set is made of high-quality silicone material that is comfortable to wear. It’s a bit pricey, but it’s still a worthwhile investment for those who want to get started in earnest.

Best for Intermediate Users Tantus Intermediate Neutral Vibrating Belt Harness Kit

Product Overview

The Tantus Intermediate Harness Kit is perfect for those who are ready to upgrade from a beginner’s kit. The kit includes

Adjustable harness

Two silicone dildos Thinner 5-inch dildo and thicker 6.5-inch dildo

Pockets for bullet vibrators

The straps fit hips up to 60 inches high and are designed for deep stimulation of the P-spot or G-spot.

Benefits

Ideal for intermediate users

Comfortable, adjustable harness

Comes with two quality dildos

Cons

Slender dildos may be too small for experienced users

Dildos are rather stiff

Recommendation

This kit is perfect for users who want to take it to the next level in terms of size and functionality to enhance their anal sex experience. It is versatile and offers more options for growing users.

State-of-the-Art Lovehoney Deluxe Bondage Kit

Overview

The Lovehoney Deluxe Bondage Strap-On Kit is perfect for the experienced enthusiast. The kit includes

Adjustable harness

Two silicone dildos One 5.6-inch junior dildo and one 8-inch senior dildo

Three interchangeable O-rings

The harness fits hips up to 67 inches for a very intense voyeuristic experience.

Benefits

Includes two dildos

Adjustable harness

Suitable for advanced users

Cons

Advanced dildos may be too large for some people

There is no vibrator pocket in the harness

Recommended Reason

This kit allows experienced users to explore a more intense experience with a larger dildo. It’s not for beginners, but it’s ideal for enthusiasts who are ready for a challenge.

Best Small Insertion Dildo: Dr. Johnson’s The Slim

If inserting one or two lubricated fingers is difficult for you, start your voyeuristic adventures with The Slim. This silicone dildo measures just 1.1 inches in diameter and can be inserted over 6 inches in length. Its subtle curves will graze the prostate without overstimulating it. While it’s not the most sensational dildo, it’s a great place for beginners to start.

Best Large Clamping Dildo: Fun Factory The Boss

For those who prefer a larger size, The Boss is ideal. At 7 inches long and 1.65 inches wide, it provides a satisfying fullness without being overwhelming. Its subtle curvature and pronounced head are perfect for stimulating the prostate area.Fun Factory’s silicone formula is a bit more “draggy,” making the use of extra lube essential.The Boss’s firmness ensures powerful prostate stimulation, though you may need a few extra minutes of warming up for comfortable insertion.

Best Simulated Clamping Dildo: Vixen Creations Mustang

If you want a realistic experience, the Mustang is the top choice. It’s made of dual-density silicone, with a firm, hard inner layer and a softer outer silicone layer for a fairly realistic feel.The Mustang is 1.6 inches wide at its widest point, but is still easy to maneuver thanks to its softness. It measures 6.5 inches in length and features coronal ridges and a slight curvature for effective prostate stimulation without overwhelming the user.

Best Prostate Massager: Blush Novelties Temptasia

Designed to stimulate the prostate, the Temptasia’s tip is angled upward for easy pressure into the prostate. The rest of the wand has a subtle texture that provides additional stimulation. It has an average size of 5.25 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. It also has a heart-shaped base that is not only practical but cute. It has a very cheap retail price, making it an affordable choice for concentrated prostate pleasure.

Conclusion

Choosing the right pegging dildo and harness can significantly enhance your sexual experience. Whether you’re a beginner or an enthusiast, there’s something for you. From options like the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit for beginners to advanced options like the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit, this guide covers the best options available. Find the toy that suits your needs and preferences, remember to maintain open communication with your partner, ensure plenty of lube during use, and choose the best position to enhance your bondage adventures. Have fun on your quest!