How to Use a Double Sided Dildo: A Comprehensive Guide

With a wide range of dildos on the market, many erotic brands are upping their game by introducing innovations such as double-ended dildos. Unlike most dildos, double-ended dildos offer more varied options for use, making them popular for lesbian sex, heterosexual sex, and solo play. These toys can please you in a variety of ways, and their design usually includes smooth, sturdy rubber with molded heads on both ends. They are pliable, large, and long, and have an incredibly satisfying feel!

What is a double sided dildo?

Also known as a double-headed or double-ended dildo, a double-sided dildo features a head at each end of a long shaft, designed for simultaneous penetration. This toy is very flexible and can be bent to your comfort and preference. Double-ended dildos are very versatile and suitable for all types of sexual play, regardless of your relationship status or sexual orientation. Many of the designs mimic realistic textures and are a must-have in your sex toy collection.

Types of double ended dildos

U shaped dildos

Ideal for self pleasure, the U-shaped dildo provides dual stimulation with simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration.

I shaped dildo

This dildo is similar to a traditional dildo but has two ends, allowing it to be used alone for deep penetration as well as with a partner for double pleasure.

Strapless Dildo

These innovative toys feature a regular dildo as the “strap-on” part. The rest of the toy can be inserted into the vagina and usually has a raised end for G-spot pleasure, which can be held securely in place during use.

DP Type Dildo (Double Insertion)

Similar to U-shaped dildos, DP dildos are designed for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. Many dildos of this type come with a suction cup base, perfect for enjoying the pleasure of double penetration alone.

How to use a double ended dildo?

Once you’ve chosen the perfect double-ended dildo, here are five steps to using it effectively.

1. Find the right dildo for you

There are many types of double-ended dildos. Whether you plan to use it alone or with a partner, choose a dildo that suits your personal preferences and needs. Make sure it is flexible enough for solo use or firm enough for use with a partner.

2. Creating an atmosphere

Creating the right atmosphere can enhance your experience. Light some scented candles, watch erotic movies, or listen to erotic audio. A relaxed and aroused state of mind and body will make using a dildo more enjoyable and comfortable.

3. Use a water-based lubricant

Apply an appropriate amount of water-based lubricant to both ends of the dildo. This will ensure smooth and comfortable penetration. Avoid silicone-based or oil-based lubricants as they may harm your body or the dildo.

4. Finding the perfect position

Experiment with different body positions to find the one that suits you best. Whether you use the dildo alone or with a partner, finding a comfortable position is key to a pleasurable experience.

5. Dildo insertion

For solo play, flexible double-ended dildos are easier to use. Bend the dildo to suit your needs and insert it into your vagina or anus. If you’re a beginner with anal sex toys, choose a dildo with a thinner end for easier insertion. With your partner, find a position that feels comfortable for both of you and establish what works for both of you.

Solo play poses using a double-headed dildo

Here are some solo play positions using a double-ended dildo.

1. Missionary Pose

Remain lying on your back with a cushion under your buttocks. Spread your legs and insert one end of the dildo, bending the other end towards you to use as a handle. This position allows for deeper penetration and is ideal for beginners.

2. Double penetration

Bend the dildo into a “U” shape and place it on a flat surface with the ends facing up. Use it while sitting up and insert each end into the anus and vagina for exciting double penetration.

3. Penetration and sucking

Insert one end of the dildo into the vagina and use the other end for oral sex. Before placing the dildo in your mouth, make sure it is fully sterilized before use.

Couple’s Play Positions Using Double Dildos

Double-headed dildos are not only for lesbian couples. Anyone, regardless of sexual orientation, can use them.

1. Doggy Style

Both partners get on all fours and face opposite directions. Insert the dildo backwards into your preferred vaginal opening. Gradually find a rhythm that suits both partners.

2. Face to Face

Lie face to face and insert the dildo. Use your hips to insert and withdraw the dildo, maintaining eye contact and enjoying the intimate experience.

3. Triangulation

This advanced position involves lying on your back and aiming the dildo at your genitals. Insert the toy and raise your legs to form a diamond shape. Move your hips and keep the dildo in place.

4. Dog Squat

One partner lies on his back while the other squats behind him, facing the opposite direction. Insert dildo and maintain position with a rocking or thrusting motion.

5. Cowboy Rodeo

One partner lies on his back while the other straddles his crotch. Insert the dildo and begin rocking while enjoying the intimate gaze of your partner.

Frequently asked questions

1. Can I use a double-ended dildo in a standing sex position?

Standing sex positions can be challenging with a double-ended dildo as it can slip off. It is best to try the toy in a lying position.

2. Why does my double-ended dildo keep slipping off during sex?

It is difficult to secure the classic double-ended dildo in place without a harness. Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles with Kegel exercises to improve body control.

3. Can I glue my existing dildos together to make a double dildo?

No, don’t DIY your sex toy. Using hardware glue is very unsafe for your body and the toy may break during use. Please buy good quality double-ended dildos.

4. How do I properly clean and store my double-ended dildo?

Clean the dildo with warm water and mild soap or special sex toy cleaner. Store it in a special storage bag to minimize exposure to dust and dirt.

5. Can I have a cervical orgasm with a double-ended dildo?

Yes, most double-ended dildos are of a length that allows cervical orgasms to be achieved through deep vaginal penetration. Make sure you are fully aroused before attempting this.

Conclusion

Double ended dildos have dual insertion ends for double the intense pleasure. They are versatile and can enhance both solo and inter-partner pleasure. By choosing the right size, design and material, and following the right techniques for use, you can make the most of this exciting sex toy for new experiences. Embrace the adventure and enjoy the incredible sensations that a double-headed dildo can bring to your sex play!